When we are focused on LOVE-finding we see beyond the person and personality to the LOVE ESSENCE of ourselves and others.
As we learned in AH Principle #1, the Essence of our being is love, this is true for everyone …even those that hurt us or seem distant and unconnected, and even ourselves when we are in an angry, frustrated, disappointed, shame or guilty state, or any fear-based condition. When we are focused on love-finding we are feeling our connection to the Divine Spirit and love supports us in our Attitudinal Healing purpose of, “our only goal is inner peace”. When we have our peaceful moments, we are in our state of love which connects us all.
Love Finder = Connection OR Fault Finding = Separation
When we are fault-finding we are focused on seeing the person, their personality and human/ego-based choices…and on ourselves and our fear-based choices. It is seeing the negative, not the positive. If we believe in the concept that, “what we focus on expands” then when we focus on fault-finding…that behavior expands in our lives and situations.
What do you want to focus on and expand in YOUR life?
To fault-find is to see ourselves and others as “victims” of our circumstances, mostly from our past, and that we have no power or control over changing. We can only change our perspective and attitude / mind. When we have victim thinking, we cannot heal ourselves and find inner peace because we are not focused on the healing power of love. Ego based thoughts do not heal or bring peace of mind.
As we go through life, we get into the “habit” of focusing on love-finding or fault-finding. Maybe this is from our upbringing or the situations that we have been in. And the world supports us in fault-finding and victim thinking as we continue our “righteous” thoughts of “oh, poor me…look what happened to me” and obtain sympathy. We think we are getting love that way. This habit can become a way of life.
OR the habit of love-finding and more inner peace can be your way of life. With an Awesome Attitude we want to support each other in love-based programming! Which do YOU want in your life? What do you want to choose? Paying attention and practice get us to our goal.
My New Year’s Eve
As we are love-finding, we begin to see the value and the learning opportunity in every circumstance…to learn to choose love instead of ego/fear-based, fault-finding. As I am confronted with anger from someone else which might bring up anger in me…I try to remember to take myself away from the situation and “return to love” even when my ego wants to keep me in my anger. This happened to me one New Year’s Eve (New Year’s Eve!!!). I could have gotten mad and yelled and left… and I did leave the room, upset and crying from a misunderstanding, until I could take a few minutes to get in touch with my heart and return with love and patience. We then talked and had a nice remainder to the evening.
This was (and still is) a learning opportunity to choose love-finding in me…and extend that out into the world…to that other person if that is the case. It is our ego thinking/programming that causes the problems in our world…last century and this.
“We will not solve the problems of the world, said Albert Einstein, “from the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. More than anything else, this new century (the 1900’s) demands new thinking. We must change our materially (ego) based analyses of the world around us to include broader, more multidimensional (love) perspectives.”
Every genuine loving thought about ourselves or others is saved in the universe and spreads more love. Love-finding connects us together and it connects us to God…and that is where we find the “peace that passes all understanding”…and can heal. Which do you want to feed and nourish in your life? As we acknowledge love-finding, we strengthen and nurture our emotional and spiritual well-being. CHOOSE LOVE!
(Some concepts are taken from “To See Differently” by Susan Trout
(out of print but has been available through Amazon.com).
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